What do I say to, hopefully, the future birth mother of our child? I can't imagine the difficulty of the decision you're trying to make. To find a family that will love your child as their own and raise them in a way that you approve of is a daunting task. I appreciate you considering our family as a possibility for your baby.
Having had the opportunity to carry and give birth to a child I know some of the things you are going through right now. Your body is changing in ways that you can't imagine until it actually happens and you are experiencing aches and pains in places that you didn't know existed. Hopefully you haven't had to go through the sickness that completely takes over some women for the first three months of pregnancy. My first three months weren't as difficult as some women have but I sure didn't feel good, that's for sure. Thank goodness that it all passes eventually and we feel good again and get our bodies back. It shows so much unselfishness that you would go through so much to give your baby life and then give that precious gift to a family that can't complete their family without you.
Because of this amazing thing you are doing I know that you are good. I love and respect you already and look forward to getting to know you. I have faith that God has His hand in all things and is especially mindful of the decision you are trying to make right now. I know that if it is right for our lives to be connected through a child that we will share throughout it's life then we will both know within our hearts that it is best.
Please take care of yourself and your growing baby. There is a miracle happening inside of your body. I hope to hear from you soon, and thank you again for considering our family.
Amber
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